considerably increased. Most people tend to forget about daunting reality when they are sexually excited.It's an Erotic Spa for our Brain, so much needed with all the crap going on.However, some understand well that what makes us aroused will not stand a chance in our marriage/relationship.There are no Good and Bad sexual fantasies.However, it is important what you will do with your fantasy ideas.If you are lucky to share your life with a sexually open minded partner with whom you can entrust your deepest fantasies, then you are the winner! However, most of us subconsciously know that staging such a " theatre play " would ruin their relationship for good ! Hence, there are a lot of lust driven both men and women who are looking to spread their wings somewhere else. Sometimes dirty talking or a discreet fantasy phone chat is a first step to make someone aroused and content ( before you even meet them in person.) I know....